nibbles2 wrote:I find this really interesting.
If I may ask a (slightly OT) question about this.
Max and Liz's relationship was based on love and free will, in complete contrast to his relationship with Tess which was forced and programmed. On numerous occassions Max made a point of turning his back on destiny and chosing Liz. That's what I loved about Max. (I've always found it ironic that the person who made the most noise about Tess and Max belonging together was actually Liz.

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So given that Max and Liz is about love and free will and Max and Tess is about destiny and programming - why do so many dreamer fics revolve around the notion of Max and Liz being destined, prophesised, reborn to be with each other?
whoa you're calling us hypocritical
why do some Candy fics revolve around the notion of Michael and Maria being sweet and romantic with Michael as Max's clone (= perfect boyfriend and sensitive) even if many candies loved him because he was the opposite of Max too and not the perfect boyfriend?
not everything is black or white you know.
There are dozens of fics where it's revealed that Liz was Max's lover on Antar and she was recreated under the same process as the aliens and implanted in Nancy Parker so that she and Max could find each other again. I get that the idea of soulmates is romantic. But is that not the very same thing as Max and Tess being programmed to be with each other? Does it not fly in the face of what is so great about Max and Liz? They're not exactly star-crossed lovers if they were genetically programmed to fall in love with each other. To me, it diminishes their love because really, how do you know that they're actually in love and not just programmed to act that way? Do they really like staring into each others eyes or is it something they've been programmed to do?
it's not the same thing and i believe that into a way
Cocogurl already answered.
the thing is that with M&L the "destined love" could make more sense because they're really soulmates and Max recognized her as the half of his soul from the very beginning. they really love each other and NOT because someone told them to love each other. this is the big difference
it's not programmed. a past life storyline with them (and i personally don't like the genre very much) would make sense because of the relationship they shared and their transcendent connection. because of the way they were developed in the show too.
the past life would be a plus but
not the only reason of why they should be together. it would be a bit like what happened with FMax. M&L married into both "lifetimes" even if someone tried to change their future. It didn't happen because they were forced but because they always loved each other and an alternative universe can't change the fact that they're always still soulmates.
The same thing never happened with Tess. they were really artificially programmed to be together like Michael and Isabel but they didn't share a natural bond nor they recognized each other as soulmates. they weren't soulmates. big difference.
Max recognized and missed Michael when he wasn't with him while he totally forgot about Tess for 10 years and she had to mindwarp him in order to make him understand who the heck she was. (and not only Max. Michael and Isabel didn't remember her too)
the very big difference is also the whole concept of "destiny" the way they developed it in the show.
because we're forgetting that in roswell the word "destiny" was used improperly. what we call destiny in roswell is not the real destiny and not even fate.
so it's NOT that that past life lovers and destiny does automatically mean that a couple is forced
what made M&T forced and against free will is not "destiny" itself but *the way* it was developed with them, with their specific example. how it was based *only* on that. and with them it wasn't real destiny and the real meant to be because they missed fundamental things that could make their relationship not only believable but real, genuine, natural, spontaneous.. no matter if their alien donors were together or not.
for them it wasn't just a plus it was the only reason of why they
had to be together.
they weren't in love with each other and they didn't know each other. they were forced to be together not because they loved each other in the other life AND into this life too but because someone established that they had to be together and because Nacedo made a deal with Kivar and needed Tess pregnant with Max's son.
Tess was a duty for Max. it seemed that he couldn't be the king if she couldn't jump into his pants. Even for their fans Max is selfish because he follows his feelings when he MUST be with Tess at any cost for only God knows (now) what's the real reason since their union was useless for the group and antar and the real needed thing was her help as one of the royal four. not to mention that she almost killed him and his family.
where's the love? it's when the whole concept of past lovers stop to be romantic and it's transformed into another totally different thing.
then add that Max was in love with someone else. someone whom he really shared a connection. the connection he should have shared with his programmed mate.
with Max and Liz fated was surely involved and maybe destiny too.
But the difference is that it was the real fate and it gave them the pen with the promise of a possible result but they were the ones who wrote the story.
Can you see the difference here? Because it'd undeniable. again, love is huge key.
love is the only thing that can't be programmed and it's what can make everything different.
anyway, i don't remember a dreamer ff where they were genetically programmed to be together and they are together just for this reason

, however. they surely exist but i bet that Max and Liz are in love with each other into those ff too and they feel connected to each other. and this alone make them totally different compared to the whole concept around M&T- especially if they don't want to kill each other ^^"
again, love is the key of everything. then the author can find his/her way to explain what in the show wasn't explained. every example is different.
i remember many dreamer ff based on the prophecy that the writers did cut from Max in the city when Ava told Liz
A once fallen king shall rise again and bring his bride back to life.
that is what happened with Max and Liz. and notice the prophecy talked about a bride not a past life wife.
a bride. the woman who is about to marry him
and honestly that's the idea that i like more. The idea that Zan (even if for me Max is not really Zan but more like his heir) found through Max his soulmate, true love and bride into another world, another time and another species.
A lot of fics also have Max and Liz going into heat so that they'll make love and procreate.
Again to me, this is very unromantic. Are they really in love and attracted to each other or is their cells just fullfilling their biological process? How can anybody find these 'heats' sexy and romantic? It's not about desire and attraction, it's a process, like breathing and eating and and all other bodily functions. They are reduced to the same level as most other animals who commit sexual acts with each other, not because of affection and attraction but because they are biologically driven to perform that function at a certain time of year. Just like the migrate or hibernate or whatever.
you want to put everyone and every story in the same box.
you make it seems that
all the dreamers share this opinion while it isn't even true. you should make this specific criticize to the specific authors not to all the group of the dreamers especially the ones who can't even understand what you're talking about since they never read this kind of ff or maybe they didn't get your same interpretation. you should ask the authors and they could explain you their opinion. i don't think that they would kill you or something
sorry if i can sound rude but i'm starting to feel annoyed by how people always accuse ALL the dreamers of things that, above all, all the shippers do not just them. into a way or another we always have to justify our "actions" and why we like this or this. it's getting really boring not to mention hypocritical.
i made you an example,some candies hate Max but they transform Michael into Max. but i don't post into your board saying that all of you are the same asking why you're hypocritical.
all the people are different
maybe because i don't think that a sweet Michael is automatically always a Max's clone and the candy who wrote Michael like that hated the way Max was with Liz .